Everybody’s looking for hot dating tips these days. Is it because people think “all the good ones are taken” or is it just that it’s Spring and love is in the air? Either way, these Hot Dating Tips can get you started on the romance of your dreams!
When it comes to meeting women and hypnosis both, rapport is everything. Rapport is a feeling of connection, a feeling that you’re both on the same page, that you’re comfortable being with the other person. Leaving aside for the moment the whole “Bad Boy” phenomenon, most of the time a woman is not going to be willing to talk to you or look at you as potential date material if she’s not feeling comfortable with you. So,
Tip 1 – Smile! It may sound silly, especially if you have a Mr. Cool complex, but nothing draws a person in like a friendly, genuine smile.
Tip 2 – Tone of voice: Friendly and confident are the watchwords. Go for a smooth, relaxed tone of voice, and don’t rush your words. You might also inject a subtle tone of command, by ending your sentences with a slight drop in the pitch of your voice. You’re not actually ordering her to do anything, but the command tone conveys confidence and a well developed sense of self. Women hate wusses!
Tip 3 – Pace her experience. In hypnosis, Pacing means mirroring back to the person something about how she is or what she’s experiencing. For instance, “That looks like an interesting book – what’s it about?” She’s into the book – or even if she’s not, you’ve entered her world by commenting on it.
Tip 4 – Once you’ve established some rapport, then Lead her somewhere. Again, this is not about getting her to do anything to prove that you’re in control. It’s simply that after you’ve established a comfort level with you being in her world, then you invite her into your world. For example, “I had a helluva time getting crosstown – have you ever tried getting a cab on 10th Avenue?” Then tell the story. People love stories, especially when they’re amusing. It’s difficult not to be drawn in, because you want to hear how it comes out.
Tip 5 – Don’t want anything from her! As stated above, women hate wusses! Which is not hard to understand, because you do, too, right? Be the one who’s generating the conversation. Most women are good talkers – big news, right? – but it’s ridiculous to rely on that if you want to connect with someone. Talk about movies, American Idol, what you did last weekend, something that just happened at work, stuff that you like to do, hobbies, anything. Come from the place that you have something to offer – which you do – and you’ll be at your best. After that it’s up to chemistry and the luck of the draw…
These Hot Dating Tips are all general principles used in Conversational Hypnosis, one of the cutting edge new behavioral fields in the realm of communication. It’s easy to learn the basics, and with a little more study you can become a master at drawing your potential date into your world and into your life.
Author: Ethan A. Campbell
Article Source: EzineArticles.com
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