“Daddy, why did you get me pregnant?”
To all the fathers out there, if your didn’t tell your darling little daughter to make sure they guys she is hooking up with wear a rubber and she gets pregnant or a disease you might as well be the one sticking it in her, because you are responsible for her condition.
“Mom, why didn’t you tell me you had the clap before you spread out on the back seat for me, then tell everyone I was a lousy fuck?”
Moms if you are just as repulsed by this notion as you should be, then you need to make sure it doesn’t happen with another girl. Tell your sons about how to protect himself when, not if, they have sex. Tell him how to show he cares about her needs, make sure he knows that it is important even if you have to buy him a book that goes into the details of how. It might be embarrassing to talk to your teenage son about this kind of thing, but so is a the trip to the family doctor, finding out your son got VD, and looking either one of them in the face afterwards.
Not telling your kids everything they need to know about is as good as having it with them. Hiding behind your own gender bias or embarrassment just doesn’t cut it. Every parent must be involved in the reality of their children’s lives, from how they are doing at school, what they are doing online, and, yes, even if and maybe who they are having sex with . We as parents have to make difficult choices in raising our kids all the time, and we do it because it is the right thing to do. Why should the sex talk be any different? Living in a fantasy world where your kids don’t have sex, don’t get pregnant (get someone else pregnant), can’t satisfy their partner, or live the rest of their lives with an STD (and maybe die from it) leaves you as responsible as him/her and their partner for the consequences when they do.
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Dose being married an having kids change your sexual relationship? People always say don’t get married your sex life will die or sex dies when you say I do. Is this wrong.
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Our kids have caught us several times. Once they were upstairs and came down quickly. The oldest saw what we were doing and took the others back up. Try distracting them in another room with a movie or snack. If you are interrupted don’t make a huge deal about it just tell them you need some time right now and will be there soon.